Welcome to The Bay Museum Website

The Bay Museum is a friendly museum situated on Canvey Island. Based in a degaussing station, it now offers a wealth of artefacts, books and displays focusing on both local and world military history focused on the First and Second World Wars. Open from 10am till mid-afternoon on Sundays, the museum is run by our volunteers who always warmly welcome visitors and are willing to impart their knowledge. They can also help you research your own family military histories and have extensive experience of visiting battlefields and cemeteries. Our website contains information about visiting the museum as well as archiving wartime records that we regularly transcribe online.


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Winter closing of the Bay Museum.

The Bay Museum Committee has decided that, with immediate effect, the Bay Museum will be closed for the months of October, November, December, January and February apart from the first Sunday in each of those months and will reopen on the first Sunday of March.  The Bay Museum will be open every Sunday of the other seven months.  This year the museum will reopen on the 1st March 2026.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his wife.

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Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Monday 11th February

9.00 pm.

My own most precious darling,

I was delighted this morning to get your long and most interesting Wednesday letter – I’m so pleased to hear that my letters from The Hague have arrived – they were just handed in at ‘the desk’ so they didn’t take long.  I do hope you are feeling better and that your various ailments have cleared up, we would have been a healthy pair if we had been together on Wednesday, the day I was feeling at my worst!  I hope you made the trip up to London today and that you did some successful shopping etc.  I shall be most interested to hear how you got on.

I hadn’t really given the question of whether or not to drop the ‘Major’ very much thought, but the chances are at least 100-1 that I shall, as you say if everyone kept his/her Army etc rank a hell of a lot of people would be saddled with queer ranks.  It I was going to be a PT instructor or Golf Club secretary then I probably would but I don’t reckon the Army and Law mix!

I’ve had a very busy day, right up to 6.30 and just haven’t had a dull moment, but when, in the fullness of time, I set down my pen this evening Mr. Wiltshire will come once more into his own and will no doubt lull me to sleep.  There is absolutely no news of any interest today – the usual heavy rain started at about 2 ocl and has been quite relentless ever since – I can’t ever remember so much rain for so many days running – once again we have hockey matches arranged for Saturday and Sunday next but it remains to be seen whether or not we shall play them.

I would simply love to have been a fly on the wall at your Friday tea party and it is just as well I wasn’t there I think, do we should both have been reduced to hysterics – Grannie Ethel would have been bad enough, but unless Jane has changed, I should never have stood the look of a little female Hervey!  Angel I must get down to me ‘studies’ so will say goodnight to you – would that I could rub my toes against your warm legs tonight – sorry!

God bless you, dearest, dearest Eileen, and keep you.  I long to be back again with you and never cease from thinking about you, ALL my love to you, and only to you, yours for ever and always

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 12FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.    

On front of envelope 11 Feb.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 10th February

My dearest Maz

Since last Tuesday very little of note has happened here but I was delighted to get your letter of congratulations on my award – many thanks, Maz dear.  I’m sorry you lost a bet to Pari and I know that you never felt it would be automatic – there were only 3 MBEs and 1 OBE for the whole HQ.  I think the chances of any investiture in the near future are very remote, if at all, as there are many chaps who have had awards for a long time now without any summons to the Palace.  It will probably come plus a letter with George’s rubber stamp signature on it!  Many thanks, too, for the papers which I have received this week – they really are an absolute boon.  Since my return on Monday it just hasn’t stopped raining and there are fantastic flood scenes everywhere, I was out all day on Thursday and things were pretty bad then, but many roads throughout the Corps area are flooded and impassable now.  It has been a little better today, and this morning I walked up to the office where I had about an hour’s work to do and I went for another short walk this afternoon to look at our hockey ground which was quite unfit yesterday and our game had to be cancelled.  When I got in at 3 I got into bed and slept very heavily until 4.30!  I’m not awfully keen on afternoon sleep as I always feel so shocking when I wake up – I did today !  I haven’t been any too fit this week, for one thing the reaction to those 3 hard matches set in, then I almost but thankful to say not quite, had flu and to cap it all the trouble I had in Belgium last year returned, but has now completely gone I’m pleased to say.  After being on duty on Wednesday night and latish from my day visiting units on Thursday.  I saw films on both Friday and last night.  On Friday it was a German film called ‘Munchausen’, not bad but the sort of film which you must understand the dialogue to enjoy – I didn’t.  last night I saw Sonia Henie in ‘It’s a Pleasure’ – very light, beautiful skating and well worth seeing.  I’m still extremely busy and my job seems to grow each day rather than diminish but there’s not much longer to do now – in 4 weeks time, DV, I shall be on my way home with a single ticket! Rousing cheers.

I had very nice letters from Aunt Vi and Bill, both seemed delighted to hear of my MBE and both have been sent suitably worded replies.  My evenings next week are very full up, table tennis matches on Monday and Thursday, a farewell party on Wednesday and another on Friday!  Hockey, weather permitting, on Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday!  One thing it fairly makes the time fly.  We shall soon be half way through February – I’m so terribly looking forward to seeing you again and to getting back to the flat and everything that means.  Eileen tells me she is having Epsom baths and all sorts of things to get her weight down – you women!  Well, little Maz, I must away to have a much needed bath – here’s to March, to Spring and demob.  My love to Pari and Elli, much love to you,

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 12 FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.   

On front of envelope Written Feb 10th 1946 rec Feb 14th 1946 (8)

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his wife.

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Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 10th  February

8.30 pm.

My own most adorable angel,

The mechanism of time seems to be moving a pace, and shortly we shall be half way through February.  January seemed, in many ways, to go so slowly, but the tempo is quickening now, just as my longing to get home to you increases day by day.  Darling I’ve been thinking about your meeting me in London when I get back and what I would like to do would be to spend the night there – a lot depends on what time I get to Town but I imagine it will be round about lunch-time – we could do whatever you like in the afternoon and then, for old time’s sake have a real first class dinner at Simpsons – the next morning we could catch the train to Colchester round about 11 ocl, arriving at 12.30, get Gerald to meet us with Lois and Brian all have lunch at the Red Lion or George, then home, home, my angel for always, tea in front of the fire and a wonderful first evening, the first of so very many, just by ourselves – booking a room in Town might be tricky at short notice but I would ring up or send a wire just as soon as I arrive in UK – pre-paid with reply to you.  Let me know what you think of the idea – but, I most sincerely hope, I shall only have one homecoming from ‘the wars’ and it must be done it Style.

I’ve not over exerted myself today, though I had a solid house-work to do in the office this morning and had to be back there at 2 ocl to sign rather an important letter.  I walked up in the morning and after lunch walked to the Hospital to take a look at our hockey ground – I got back just after 3 ocl and feeling very drowsy layed me doon on my bed with this book on Property but it sent me to sleep just like that and the next thing I knew was that my watch said 4.45.  After tea I read all the ‘dirt’ in the News of the World and then wrote quick letters to Lois, Bill and Aunt Vi before stepping into a good hot bath at 7 ocl.  I noticed to my horror that the old flannel is anything but white and the Persil look you gave it has quite disappeared – I must have it boiled before I let you see it again!  And so, my darling,, here I am, on the eve of the last but three ‘Monday mornings’ which all being well I shall spend on the active list in the Army!  Good show!  Your news about the accommodation problem at the office might have been worse, I shan’t spend much time there until after my exam but if I have to share a room with anyone Gerald is the one I least mind sharing with – he’s not there very much (!) and he more than anyone there will be able to appreciate the rehabilitation problems I shall have for the first few months – and there will be many of those to start with.  The forms from the Law Soc which I wrote for, application forms for the Final, came the other day and the amount of stuff I’m meant to know for the exam is just no one’s business, a list as long as your arm and it filled me with temporary gloom just to read it, I say temporary because though its going to be one helluva sweat, I can do it, of that I’m quite certain – but I do NOT intend to burn the mid-night oil, or to crock myself over it, I’m certain it can be done without that – but in the process it will call for all the patience you can muster, as you will probably hear me reciting all sorts of odd balls while I’m shaving!  The sort of programme I have in mind is work from 9.15 – 7.30 including work on the train and from 9.15 – 10.45 pm but NOT every night, and one must forget the break in August, the exam is on the 4th, 5th and 6th of November, so no matter what happens we shall be able to celebrate our 6th anniversary in terrific style – by Jove! we will too.  Enough of this exam business, and I must shortly break off to listen to a rather good wireless programme on Dick’s wireless – he is Duty officer tonight.  Darling, I just can’t tell you how I long for March, our March, and today I have realised more forcibly than before how very near it is, and with it my longing for you increases too, how bleak and cold and cheerless the prospect of life without you would be, how very much the reverse it is with you to come back to for ever.  Your happiness my dearest wish, your laughter the sweetest music in the world, our love the richest possession we shall ever have.  And so, dearest heart, I wish you goodnight and for myself I wish just dreams of perfect you.  God bless you, sweet one, I love you so terribly much and for always will be yours, only yours

            for ever

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 12 FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.   

On front of envelope 10 Feb.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his wife.

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Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Saturday 9th February

10.15 pm.

My own most dearest heart,

The mail is playing very odd tricks these days, and, as with your letters are coming in pairs etc – I had a pair of wizards this morning, after nothing yesterday, and I was so delighted to get them – written Monday and Tuesday and correctly addressed!  You sure are going the pace in the slimming direction – Epsom baths, sulphur tabs etc, but, though I agree the scheme in principle please, darling, whatever you do don’t go making yourself ill.  When I get home I want to see you looking radiantly fit and if your slimming hasn’t borne fruit I couldn’t care less, so, don’t forget, radiant health it must be.  Good news from Smith’s, their figures have certainly been reduced, what! (I hope you are just howling with laughter but, seriously, what an excellent show their being able to make it soon – I like the sound of it a lot and would feel enormously honoured if you came to London in it, plus tight fitting semi-halo hat to match – what sort of blouse goes with it?  I’ve duly noted the telephone account in my red book and have no doubt that the receipt is now in your magnificent box file!  Well done that business like girl.

Since I wrote to you on Thursday night I’ve seen 2 films, one last night at Studio 1 and one this evening at the local Cinema from which I’ve just returned.  At Studio 1 we saw a German film called ‘Munchausen’ all about the old Barron and the fabulous lies he told – it was quite enjoyable but for a film of that type you must be able to understand the dialogue to get the point – I didn’t!  I had previously had dinner at the Visitors Mess with 2 chaps from 2 Group RAF who were over here for the day – and what a day, it just never stopped raining, and I believe the floods round here have to be seen to be believed – any question of hockey today was just laughable and our match arranged for this pm had to be cancelled.  I had a very busy day in the office and wasn’t sorry to leave at 6.15 and to feel that tomorrow is Sunday and I can lie in in the morning, though I’ve at least an hours work to do in the a.m.  Dick J. and I had an earlyish dinner and went along to see Sonja Henje in ‘Its a Pleasure’ – it was rather and very easy to watch.

My whatnot has now completely gone, so has, touching wood any sign of flu, but I’ve got a hell of a cold.  There are a lot of people down with flu and I gather that 3 of our last weeks team are in bed with it!  I only hope it doesn’t come my way.

The Guy Gibson book sounds excellent and I’m looking forward to reading it – the one I have at the moment is really well worth reading if you like Lady E Smith and I can highly recommend it.  I think you would enjoy it.  I have a fairly busy day ahead of me tomorrow, apart from my office work – letters, inter alia, to Bill and Aunt Vi from whom I had a very sweet letter yesterday – she asked me specially to think of Hugh on the 18th when they are having his memorial service which I’ve no doubt you will be attending.  Then tomorrow I must get down to that dullest of all dull books by Rivington on ‘Property’ – it’s a real and genuine stinker!  I love to hear you talking of spring and longer evenings, it means so much more to us than just the physical happening, doesn’t it?  there is so much of a message in it for us – one which, just the very thought of it, fills me with the wish to sing.  Now, my most wonderful wife, I must say goodnight and au revoir jusqua demain.  God bless you, my angel, for always – I love you terribly, terribly much and long only to be home, really home, with you for ever,

            Yours, only yours,

            So terribly lovingly

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 11FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.    

On front of envelope 9Feb.

Letter to Rev Walters from J.W. Brotherhood

No 4564 Pte J.W. Brotherhood

Signalling Sec

3/5 Leicesters

Coventry Rd

Bulwell

Notts

Feb 8th 016

Dear Rev Walters,

            The summons of life is – that everyone should do their duty.  What a contrast today with two years ago.  Then we had lethargy, carelessness, discontent, ruthlessness; yea, as a nation we were marching on to a Physical & Moral death.

            We were laughing & being laughed at.  We were scorning others, and our scorn came back to us in base mockery.

            The world thought we were decaying; and many could see the end of the British Empire.

            The world has been deceived; we ourselves have miscalculated our worth.  A Britisher sometimes forgets that he possesses hidden qualities.  The Spirit of an Englishman passes on, to each succeeding generation gives it a new impulse & a deeper meaning.  That spirit is revealed today and who knows how much greater it will be tomorrow.  Every new recruit, every ounce of fresh energy, every sovereign given to England, is a real test of faith in what we are able to accomplish.

            Every day carries us on to greater things, more stupendous problems, and above all, Eternal responsibilities.

            Our responsibility as a nation will not cease with victory, it will rather become greater.

            There will be privileges that will need to be lived up to; national problems that will have to be solved and International Relationships that will have to be strengthened.  Nor will victory lessen our obligations to those who will be defeated.  Every day brings its burdens and to my mind I think that victory will increase those burdens, yet, after all – what is the worth or value of victory unless it costs an effort?  I say – of what use is victory to us if our national life has not been tested; or it most salient features have been allowed to degenerate?

 The test of victory is in the effort that has been made.  I know there are certain redeeming features in defeat, but features redeemed are only seen in victory; and it seems to me that the redemption of our national life is now taking place; and there is an ever increasing moral evidenced; and we are just beginning to realise, that life without a battle leads to moral degeneration.

“But there’s a limit fixed to decent pride”

The nation’s watch is close; they seek a test

To prove us, whether, when our hearts are tried,

 We take this war in earnest or in jest.”

Sir.  We obey the summons, we answer the call.  Our lethargy we fling away, and with Shakespear we say:-

“Once more into the breach, dear friends, once more; or close the wall with English dead!  In peace, there’s nothing so becomes a man as modest stillness, and humility, but where the blast of war blows in our ears, then imitate the actions of a tiger.  Stiffen the sinews, summon up the blood,” and off to war.

Those words are an elegant testimony to Englishmen of today.

Does not the spirit of the 16th century still live?

A great feature of our national life today is – the unbounded enthusiasm of the sons of the Empire.

There is always an inspiration in young-man-hood.  I know they dream dreams; but sir, in the hour of danger they cease to dream, & they have visions, not of their own littleness, but of their Empires’ greatness.

Mark you, I do not mean to say that our older men have not done their duty, nor that they are not inspired.  They have, and are doing their duty; but this is a war of this generation, that the past generation are assisting in.

 We go the whole length & breadth of our Empire & we witness the same scenes everywhere.

Africa has sent her young men to fight for us, and as they have come they have re-echoed those endearing sentiments of loyalty as they have said – “Whosoever touches England, touches us, because we are part & parcel of her greatness.

Enthusiasm!  What a marvellous word.  Canada’s sons have learned its deep meaning as they have offered their life blood for the cause of freedom; and as we also come to realise of the imperishable glory that has been gained by the “Anzacs” of Australia & New Zealand, we are bound to say that a great feature of our national life is – the enthusiasm of our Empires manhood.

India needs no further testimony than that her loyalty is written in blood on the Battlefields of Flanders

            Do soldiers lack enthusiasm?  Nay.  They may sometimes be sad; courage may fail them in their hours of loneliness; they sometimes become home-sick, but they never lose heart; their enthusiasm is never dwarfed.  England’s soldiers always sing when it rains; and grumble most when the sun shines.

            I think too, that the very vitality of our nation is hidden in its young manhood; but it is developed & revealed in those who have known & experienced the trials of life.

            Young men dream dreams, old men see visions.

            Youth is eternal.  It may know its limitations, but it knows not danger; and already it has a glorious testimony to give to the future generations; & I firmly believe that the Eternal God has great cause to rejoice over the unselfish sacrifices that have been made by His creation.

            And that is not all.  We have another remarkable characteristic of our national life, & that is – the entire absence of the fear of calamity.  Defeat to England spells Hell.  Bitter, deep. Eternal Hell.  Even a soul that is crushed is filled with remorse; and a nation that is remorseful has the ever present fear of a calamity.

            Calamity!  What does it mean?  Peace, Joy, Happiness, Security? NAY.  There are no virtues in calamity.  Home-life loses its sacredness when there is an ever-present fear; and a nation loses its moral force when it expects the worst.

            But we have lost fear & gained hope, we have discarded sentiment & embraced faith; and we stand before the world as the leader of nations.  To us, the future is bright.  There are only shadows now, & over the Eternal Hills we see the rising dawn.  Nor have we any terror.  The weak selfishness of our former life has been given up. & we, as sons of England, endure hardness that freedom may be exalted.  Thus England’s son’s fight, while her daughters work, love, & weep, & everywhere we see a glorious Faith evidenced.  We are inspired; yea, we are proud & thank Heaven for our calling.  We are called to redeem the nation & redemption spells hope.

            Honor, too, has always had a recognised value (except in certain cases).  That is ever a grand feature of Englishmen that they recognise Honor.  They value its meaning.  The Old Book says – That wisdom is beyond the price of rubies”, & I think it can be as truly said – That honor is beyond the price of gold.

            Gold may help a nation, but it never makes a nation; yet honor is always an important factor in a successful nation’s life.  Blood may be rich, but honour is richer; and it is idle to suppose that sacrifice is useless, & death loss.

            I am well aware that contentment is great again; and we as a nation might have been contented, we could have said – Oh, never mind about other nations, we are alright.

            But I ask the question – Is any nation safe when it will not take up arms against the wrong, & when it refuses to fight for those Eternal Principles of Freedom, Toleration, & Justice?  Never, never safe.  Far better to die fighting, than to fight dying.

            We value honor, it is sacred, yea, it is Eternal in its application of principle.  Where should we have been today had we not rolled up our sleeves?  God alone knows!  But this we do know – enthusiasm would have been known by another

name, & faith & hope would almost have been akin to calamity.

            I think one of the greatest privileges of today is – for a person to be able to say – I am an Englishman.

            We are the covenanters of the 20th century.  The Defenders of Faith.  Every soldier is an hero.  They are large-hearted, sympathetic, and above all, honorable.  We have learned those principles at our mother’s knee & have been told them from the “Book of Life”.

            Such principles have become dear to us, yea, so dear, that we fight for them, not that we want to fight, but because we feel bound by the sacred Law of Heaven to defend the weak from invasion & oppression.  How gallant then are England’s sons.

            I know there are scenes of sadness, & almost everywhere we see the weeping eye.  Here are faces flushed & sad, hearts heavy & footsteps slow.  But Sir, I would rather my mother weep over my dead bones today; I’d rather her heart be heavy, & her dear face flushed & sad, than that life should be a misery to her in future days.

            Life has been outraged enough.  Death has had too many terrors.  Such outrages must be atoned for, such terror must cease.

            Therefore to accomplish our object everyone is needed.  Every man in his place, & doing his best when he is there.

            This is not the age for slackers.  We need Moral Stability, and thank God such a power is increasing; & we are now recognising that life is dearer than death, & that it has an Eternal purpose ever among the nations.

            Thus we go forward, & as we forward go we hear ringing in our ears – “We shall miss you, but we think you ought to go”.

            Our loved ones are urging us on, not that they may weep, but they may enjoy life free from Hellish care.

            Yes, they bid us go & in sweet words they say – “There are flowers beneath the snow lad, and behind the clouds the sun.  there are fringes to bestow, lad, when the tiring race is run.

Then be true & hoping ever, firm of purpose, strong of soul.  There’s a promise in the future thy reward shall come at last.

Though the hours be void of song, lad, though the stars be overcast.  There’s no night, however long, lad, but shall wear to morn at last.  Then take heart, continue striving looking onward evermore, there shall be a blest reunion over on the other shore.

So with Heaven’s Benediction resting upon us, we pursue our way.  We sacrifice because we love.  The grave is not our goal.

We desire Earth to be a fairer place, & Heaven to be a blessing to all.  Therefore you who must stay at Home, we crave your sympathy & love, & in God’s name, I ask you never to forget us.

Remember us here in England.  There are dangers here to face; and the soldier is a great factor in His Nation’s life no matter where he is.

So I pray you to ask God with us, that we may be kept safe & pure.  The soldiers don’t forget you, & you will never forget them.  We are out for Honor & Freedom, & for all that makes life worth living, & when we come back, and the war is over, then we’ll rest in peace & breathe the purer air of a happier & brighter country.

            May God be with you & yours is the sincere prayer of one who prays for you in your ministry.

            Sincerely yours.

                        J.W. Brotherhood.

 There is no envelope with this letter.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Tuesday 5th February

My dearest Maz,

 When I got back yesterday evening I went straight up to the office and I found 2 letters from you waiting for me, many thanks Maz dear, and for the mags, a wonderful variety which I also found.  I was so tired last night that, after reading me letters, I laid me straight doon tae sleep.  You certainly seem to have had plenty of variety recently. I’m so glad the house decorating, or as much as is allowed to be done, has been completed and I hope before long the Parnell leg will be sufficiently well enough to permit an early resumption of Oxford Road cleaning.  The Noel Coward film you and Eileen saw must have been very good and I look forward to seeing it – Eileen said it was one of the best she had ever seen – also that the Rep standard has improved.  What colossal gales you have been having, the wind has been very strong here again today though it was only ‘fresh’ in Holland.  I can best describe the wonderful hockey tour as a day by day affair, it really was marvellous value.  We all forgathered up at BAOR HQ on Wednesday evening, and we were a most cheery collection of 15 officers.  On Thursday morning the party set off in 5 staff cars and after a wonderful run we reach the Hague just in the light at 5.30 pm.  That evening we spent quietly in the Officers’ Hotel which was our HQ throughout the tour, and it was to be our last quiet evening.  I was captain of the side and no captain ever had 15 nicer chaps in his team and it wasn’t always easy as only 11 could play in each game and the selection was left entirely to me, but never a word of criticism or sign of turning off came my way.  We were taken round the Art Galleries and House of Parliament on Friday morning and after lunch set off for Leiden where we played our first match v the University.  We won 4-1 after a shaky start.  PB got 2.  The evening saw our first official dinner and a very good one it was too, the students gave us a great party.  Saturday was our big game in Amsterdam v The Probable Dutch XI (in fact they will all play for Holland) and our first 15 minutes were disastrous – we were 4-0 down!  Thereafter we rallied and they beat us 6-2 in the end.  PB scored nil.  After the game we had a huge dinner given by the Dutch hockey Association, Union Jacks on the tables etc, and a great show it was.  Sunday was our last game v The Batavarian H.C. (a club of old internationals) and we beat ‘em 5-1 in pouring rain and strong wind.  PB scored 3.  Then in the evening our third and last dinner, given by the B.H.C., was a cracking success – they mostly had their wives with me, and during my third speech of the tour, my remark about the women and how sorry I felt for the flowers (lovely tulips on the tables) went down really big – everyone had had his/her fair share of the Dutch Gin!  I was very late that night, very tired, but well content with our efforts – we never expected to win our Saturday game.

Yesterday we left the Hague at 10 ocl and I stopped at the Twenteshe (?) Bank to see J. Van D but he had gone to lunch (it was 12.30!) and I just hadn’t time to chase out to his house.  I left a long note, some cigarettes and soap!  We didn’t get to BAOR HQ until 6 ocl and after hanging about for my car, and driving through the pouring rain it was 10.15 before I was back here.  I met many charming Dutch people and they seemed genuinely delighted with our visit – considering many of us were out of training, we gave them their money’s worth.  In our team we had one Welsh international and some 3 or 4 blues, the rest about county standard with only very few games during the war.

In 5 weeks time, I shall really be home for all time and I’m getting just thrilled at the thought and at seeing you again.  Many thanks again, little Maz, for your letters and the papers, longing to see you next month – early next month – my love to Pari and Brian, much love to you,

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 6 FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.     

On front of envelope Written Feb 5th 1946 rec Feb 8th 1946 (7)

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his wife.

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Chad image Wot! Only 5 more weeks?

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Thursday 7th  February

10.15 pm.

My own most precious darling,

Today has only had one bright spot in it and that was this evening when I got back to the office at 9 pm to find your Saturday letter sitting right there on my table – I loved, as always, reading all your news and hearing all about Joan’s visit – a very bright idea on your part to get the Dunnant’s round and vice versa.  I was very pleased to hear that the books arrived safely – they didn’t take long, did they?  I will most certainly do all I can to get some more cutlery – I am almost certain to go in that direction before I come home, the only snag now is that for anything in bulk one must get an authority signed by the local Mil Gov people – but I think that can be got over by saying it is for the Mess!  Leave it to me, but don’t expect too much!  In order to enlighten you on the gong ribbon I enclose a small snippet, easier than drawing or trying to describe with any accuracy!  Bill’s letter came today, it was very good of him to write and I must drop him a line to thank him.

I’ve had one of those days when nothing has gone quite according to plan.  I left here at 9.15 and made my appointment right on the dot at 11 ocl.  We tooled out to the range but the most important chap didn’t appear and after hanging about for some time, gave it up.  It was then after 1 and having nothing much to do this p.m. I decided to whip along to his HQ (some 70 miles away) and see him – a RAF type.  I got there at 3 and waited til 4.30 before he appeared – he had gone to the wrong rendezvous!  We did our business and just on 8 ocl I was some 3 miles from home, pouring rain, when we took a wrong turning and the driver backed into a ditch!  Fortunately I got a lift back to camp and then had to hunt round for the ‘recovery’ vehicle and escort him down to the ditched car.  I got back into the Mess for a very late and rather tepid dinner at 9.30!  What a day, and am I tired, I’ll say so.

Ever since I got back on Monday it just hasn’t stopped raining and everywhere is flooded – I gather the Rhine is up to a record height and the bridge has been or is being washed clean away at Cologne.

My ‘doings’ has practically disappeared (no, it’s not that cold here!) and it’s a great relief and I hope I’ve seen the last of it for a long time.

Well, angel, unless I stop now and get to bed I shall just fall asleep as I write.  Roll on March, it just can’t come too quickly and I’m longing for our D day more than ever before and for that heavenly noise of penny insertion into phone box, bon-bon, your wonderful voice and our meeting in London and it’s only 5 more weeks to go.

God bless you, dearest most wonderful girl, and keep you.  ALL my love is yours,  only yours

            for ever and always

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 9 FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.     

On front of envelope 7 Feb.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his wife.

D -36

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Wednesday 6  February

9 pm.

My own most precious darling,

A whole lot of thanks for your Friday letter which arrived this morning and for the many kind words and congrats on my MBE – the ECS was very quick on the draw – likewise the Telegraph and Essex Chronicle.  Yes, angel, it goes right after me name, at any rate that is the ‘done’ thing.  I very much doubt if I shall get to an Investiture, there are so many outstanding now that I just can’t see it happening, not this side of 1947 anyway, it would be rather fun wouldn’t it, and an excuse for a binge in Town!  I had very nice letters from Lois, Gerald and Brian today, Lois going to great lengths to say how she had never really expected it, Gerald taking the opportunity to announce his election to the Directorship of the Essex & Suffolk, and Brian his new car!  So everyone seems happy.  When you told me of Gerald’s job the other day I do seem to remember his telling me that he expected to fill Gurney’s place on the Board, though I can’t honestly say that I remember his turning off when not so elected – I think it must have been when I was in Scotland or round D day time.

Dearest heart, I’ve told you all my news, thanked you for many letters since my return on Monday but I must own up to having forgotten the most important thing of all – to thank you such a whole lot for the wizard present of that dispatch case, which has now risen considerably in value, and I just can’t thank you enough.

Our match last night against the unbeaten Q (Movements) team was very successful and we gave them their first beating – 7-3.  I didn’t get back to the Mess ‘til nearly 11 as the game started half an hour late owing to the lights fuzing, and after reading a few pages of an excellent book by Lady E. Smith, called ‘Magic Lantern’ I was soon asleep.  There is little of interest to report today and I’m now on night duty, tomorrow I shall be out most of the day looking round some rifle ranges and in the evening I may go along to see a Sonja Henge (?) film which is on all this week.  You will be pleased to hear that my what-not is better, and touching wood, I think the miracle has happened and that I have thrown off the flu germ.  I have one slight worry on my mind at the moment, arising from a letter received this morning from Gibson’s announcing the programme of their courses and requesting an immediate reply as to what I want to do.  The worrying thing is this – the 5 months class starting 9 May (ideal) will only be held in Guildford, the 6 month and 4 month in London – but the 6 month starts on April 2nd, and hence the problem.  I wrote this pm telling them that I couldn’t possibly attend the Guildford course, (lectures start at 12 am) and also saying that the 2 April one would only give me some 19 days after being demobbed to settle down in, I have asked them for their advice, earliest  – all very tricky isn’t it.  if the worst comes to the worst I think I must do the 6 month course and our programme would them have to be re-adjusted as follows:-

14 Mar – HOME

21 Mar – Up to Dunkeld for 10 days

31 Mar – Return home

2 Apr – Start course at 2.15 pm.

The hours in London are good – the lectures are from 2.15 -3.45 on Mon, Tues, Thurs and Fris, which, on those days will mean catching the 12.30 ? train up and 6 ocl train back giving me about 1½ hours at the Law Societies Hall after the lectures for a cupper and writing up me notes.  It is a problem though, what says you chum?  One must look rather to the future and so very much hangs on to my passing in November.  I was very disturbed to hear today that the food rations are to be cut to the war-time level – it really is a bugger, isn’t it?  But soon there will be 2 of us to cater for which won’t be quite so bad, or will it?  Now my dearest heart, I must awa the noo, I can hardly believe that in the absolutely small number of 35 days I shall really be home, how I wish it will just flash past – it won’t be long now, and oh! how I’m longing for it – if we have to curtail our visit to Scotland to 10 days, boy will we make up for it in August when the course breaks up for a month – God bless you, sweetest girl, always – I’m just LONGING for ‘this time 35 days’, and think of nothing but you, only you, and our wizard home.  ALL my love is yours for ever

            and always, and always will be

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 7 FE 46.  Signed P.C. Benham.     

On front of envelope 6 Feb.