Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Tuesday 13th November ‘45

My dearest Maz

 When I got back to the mess last night I found your wonderful cake waiting for me.  I sampled a piece before I went to bed and I can truthfully say it is one, if not the, of the best ever, it’s a real beauty – thank you so very much, Maz dear, and thank you also for your anniversary letter which couldn’t have been better timed, it came on Friday 9th just before I set out on the long journey to Brussels – again many thanks – I think you really are safe to say that this will be the last anniversary we shall not be together for, I hope and pray it is.  Then today more news from you and a lovely bundle of papers – most gratefully received, but your news had the same effect on me as the actual hearing of it had on you, I saw red at once, in the double meaning of the word.  Poor old Pari, I can see him so well, completely dignified absolutely unruffled, but no one can see his labours, his time and money, spent on his town, swept aside but an unscrupulous, ungrateful, cowardly lot of – well I won’t say it, without feeling bitterly hurt – they are cowards because there must have been many who voted against him who had no desire to do so, but whose hearts if they have any are ruled by the whip, and what a crooked whip it is.  I feel very sorry, too, for Percy Sanders and Blomfield, both men who have given much for the benefit of all, no I felt and feel just as you do about it, but it’s no good crying over spilt milk and one must bide ones time, it will come alright, when one can fight their ideals which just won’t turn out the way they want in practice.  I had such nice letters from Pari and Elli on the 9th and tomorrow night will see me penning a long letter to Pari and one to Elli later on in the week.  The trip to Brussels was great fun and the match a thoroughly good and enjoyable one – we were beaten 2-1, but no-one minds being beaten when the game is even and played cleanly and in a good spirit.  Sunday just couldn’t have been a worse day, it just poured all the morning and never looked like stopping, it didn’t!  they had ‘billed’ the game and civilians were charger 30 francs to watch, and considering the frightful day, the crowd of between 2-300 was an amazingly good one.  The game was very fast despite the fact that the ground was very boggy and one of the circles was under water – it didn’t make it any easier for the inside forwards, and I was completely ‘done’ after the game after trying to ‘tackle back’ and keep up at the same time – I was quite satisfied with my game and the whole team didn’t do at all badly against a team which included 6 or 7 internationals – on a dryer ground I think our methods would have been more successful, as it was we were 0-0 at half time, and then had the waterlogged circle to play into – our inside right scored the goal about 10 minutes from the end.  The journey back and forth to Brussels was a nightmare, 15 ½ hours in the train going and 15 hours coming back, and the carriages weren’t heated!

We got to Brussels at 9.30 am on Saturday and after a late breakfast and a shave I went up to the Avenue Louise where Germaine and Maurice were expecting me and after lunch we went to the Golf Club where I met and played a round with two most charming men, Wasscher and his son.  He is the Wasscher and Watson tennis man, and his son is the coming Belgian best-ever – already no 2 in Belgium and only 24 – a very nice boy, quiet and completely unaffected.  Needless to say I had a very early night on Saturday and slept right in on Sunday morning.  As I say it was a very good trip, though the weather couldn’t have been more unkind to us, and when I got back here yesterday there was snow on the ground and a snowstorm raging.  Am I longing for Christmas? Yessir! and am I longing to see you again?  Yessiree!  Much love to you, Maz dear, and to Pari and Elli, many thanks again for that wizard cake.

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 14 NO 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.  

On front of envelope Written Nov 13th 1945 rec Nov 17th 1945 (15)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Thursday 8th November

My dearest Maz

I thought I would drop you a line tonight, as I’m off to Brussels tomorrow and I hea me doots if I shall be able to write on Sunday – a signal came in yesterday announcing the team which has been selected for Sunday and I’m pleased to say my name was right there – I saw the Chief of Staff this morning and asked if he had any objection to my going and, of course, he hadn’t (couldn’t have even if he’d wanted as the Rhine Army signal read ‘Corps will make the above players available etc!)  I shall be off in the morning and we assemble at Rhine Army HQ at 3 pm, catch a train and get to Brussels just before midnight.  It should be great fun, and I’ll give you a full account of it all when I get back, probably on Monday evening.  So far this week I’ve been very busy but managed to get some exercise yesterday in a pick-up game we had, my legs have completely healed and there are no ill effects.

The mail has been simply frightful this week, since Sunday.  I’ve had three four letters one each from you and Pari, Elli and Eileen.  I was delighted to get your letter on Monday written last Friday and choc-a-bloc with interesting items of news, I was very relieved to hear that the canteen fetched £35, we paid £40 (Woodward’s valuation), so it might have been worse – the price the piano fetched was a real good ‘un, wasn’t it?  I shall be most interested to hear what the other stuff made.

I must say from all accounts, and speaking comparatively, I think the local election results might have been a lot worse, the big thing is that the Reds haven’t got control – I can see I shall have to do something about it when I can get the time.  I was sorry to hear that Ernest got put off, but somehow rather expected it.  Tomorrow is the 5th anniversary of that never-to-be-forgotten day, 9 Nov 40, and when I look back on the past 5 years I realise more than ever how wonderfully lucky I’ve been in nearly every way.  I say ‘nearly’ because the events of June 44 just prevent it from being 100%; parents who to me never seem to grow older and are always the same, brother as kind-hearted as anyone could be, wife whom I love now more, if it’s possible, than I did when I married her – Yes, I have many blessings for which I am truly thankful, and my only hope and prayer is, that these things may never change – let the Labour people do their damndest to make ones lot a stereotyped one, a nation of puny civil servants with no ambition and no character, they must never assault the family way of life, one thing is sure, they will never succeed in the long run, not with our family anyway.  Now, little Maz, I must away – here’s to Christmas and seeing you again, my love to Pari and Elli and my thanks for their most welcome letters.  Much love to you

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 9 NO 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.    

On front of envelope Written Nov 5th 1945 rec Nov 12th 1945 (14)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 4 November 45

My dearest Maz

Your second letter this week reached me this morning and I was delighted to hear all your news.  I am very much looking forward to the arrival of the cake, many thanks in advance!  On Tuesday your letter written last Friday arrived containing, inter alia, the news about John having to go to Norway – it made me simply furious and is yet another example of what one has to contend with these days in the army, it is one of the more scandalous things, pure breach of promise, I’ve heard for a long time.  I’m glad to hear that you have started to drive again – is there any news of the new car yet?  I was so very sorry to hear about Frank Grimwade, probably though a good thing in many ways, but Mrs G will be very lonely without him, won’t she? 

I can’t quite make out why they wouldn’t allow my vote in the local elections, I am on the register and, I should have thought, was entitled to a vote, by proxy or otherwise, whether I was in the Borough or Timbuktu – I just can’t fathom the way these things are run.  How some-ever I was very pleased to see in yesterday’s Daily Herald (a revolting bolshie rag) that Colchester was NOT one of the towns captured by labour, though they had eight gains – I wonder who they were and await details of those who got in, with great interest.

You certainly had an ‘old fashioned’ day at Clacton and I was most interested to hear about David, he is very wise to try and stay in the Air line as there will always be an opening there and he really isn’t trained for very much else, is he?

All being well I’m hoping to get my leave at Christmas time, won’t it be wizard if I do.  My course, which was due to start on 11th Nov has been postponed yet again and is now due to commence on 9th Dec and finishes on 21st Dec.  I have been told that I can go on leave as soon as the course is over and am trying to get a vacancy which would mean my arrival back home on the 23rd or 24th.  I don’t think I’ve ever looked forward to anything quite so much.  I haven’t been home for Christmas since 1939.  Only 7 more weeks to go.  I have, on account of my change of job, been very busy this week, mostly picking up the threads, but I’ve managed to get 2 excellent games of hockey, apart from these I’ve done absolutely nothing interesting, no films no ENSA shows.  The first game was on Wednesday up at Rhine Army HQ, the big trial match.  The ground was rather bumpy but considering this and the fact that 22 players had been gathered in from miles round, the game was an excellent one.  I played ‘fairly’ well, not as well as I should have liked but scored 2 fairly good goals and am hoping for the best.  The team won’t be announced until Tuesday as 8 Corps weren’t represented in our trial and held one of their own in Hamburg yesterday.  I met no fewer than 3 of my old Uppingham contemporaries playing, John Singleton who was in the team in 1934/35, and two Fawcus brothers, one of whom played a really first class game in goal.

On Thursday the second game was against the local General Hospital side, in the final of the Iserlohn Knock Out Cup.  It wasn’t a very good game as we were far too good for them, leading 5-0 at half time and the play in the second half deteriorated a lot, and we won 6-0 (3).  I had a most unfortunate little accident just after the second half had started.  One of the opposition caught me across the leg with his stick and I can only think that a piece of flint must have been embedded in his stick, as something punched a neat hole straight through my stocking and deep into my leg – the MO packed it with sulphamide (?) and put a clip across it in lieu of a stitch.  He took the clip off yesterday and I’m pleased to say it has now almost completely recovered.  Still no news about demob though one rather brighter thing is that Group 21 (Officers only) not due to be completed until 22 Feb is now going to be out by 12 Dec which is bound to have its repercussions on later groups.  I am duty officer all day today, rather sad in view of the weather, no wind, no cloud and just the day for some good outdoor exercise.  Well, little Maz, I must bash on with a few outstanding jobs I suppose so that I start the week with a clean sheet.  My love to Pari and Elli and my thanks to them both for their many welcome letters. 

Much love to you, Maz dear, am so longing to see you again next month all being well

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

PS.  I hope the big sale was more successful than the gramophone!  Eileen said she saw some of the things in Dansie’s window – she should have gone to the sale and bidded some of the prices up!!

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 5 NO 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.    

On front of envelope Written Nov 4th 1945 rec Nov 7th 1945 (13)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 28 October 45

My dearest Maz

Besides a wizard supply of mags, including the best-ever Argosy, I have two most welcome letters to thank you for, written on the 19th and 22nd, from the first of which I was delighted to hear of the safe arrival of the parcel, and that the contents were what you wanted – rousing cheers .  I was most interested to hear all about the sale, very successful, wasn’t it?  I’m so looking forward to a view of the morning room – does one have to pay to go in?!  Also the drawing room minus stack and plus the items you have bought – yes, it was a rotten price for the gramophone, all I can say is that someone has got a real bargain – you just can’t get ‘em nowadays so why it fetched so little I’m blowed if I know.  I’m afraid the weather this last week must have been vile with you from all accounts on the wireless and in the papers, it hasn’t been so good here, either.  There must have been some terrific seas and the beach at the Naze should be littered with axes, arrows and mines(!)

I’ve had a funny sort of week, plenty of work, two excellent games of hockey and two films sums it up in a nutshell – the work side of it has included the taking over of my new job – (not very thrilling) – and organizing all the details of our two hockey matches which involved travelling 640 miles!  The first game was on Wednesday against HQ BAOR and their team included 5 county players – we had our strongest side out, and left here in 3 cars at 10.30 am – they gave us a ‘fair’ lunch (asked whether you thought it was good, you would have said ‘well, yes I think it was!) and we bullied off sharp at 2.30.  The first have was very even with our side getting rather more of the game but just not quite scoring, and at half time we were 0-0.  About 10 minutes after the restart I converted a short corner into a goal with a ‘fizzer’ into the side of the net but they soon equalised after our goalie, who also played very well, made his one and only mistake – after more attacking on our part, they scored the winning goal just before the end after a breakthrough – a draw would have been a fairer result, I think.  They gave us a very good tea and we were back here at 7.45 pm.  Last Sunday night I went to see a film called Czarina, Tallulah Bankhead and my advice, if you are thinking of going to see it, is ‘don’t’.  It was very stupid though quite funny in parts.  On Monday night, at Studio One, I saw a really very good film, one which was at Colchester not so very long ago, called ‘Dead of Night’ all-star cast and very well worth seeing.  The big event of the week was our fixture against Tilburg at Tilburg yesterday.  After a slight delay on Friday evening we left here in 2 cars a 7 pm in a colossal gale and in the pouring rain.  We weren’t able to go very fast and it was just after 9.30 pm when we got to the RHU (Reinforcement Holding Unit) at Krefeld where I had arranged to spend the night – there were 6 officers and 4 sergeants and they gave us a good hot meal and blankets for the night.  The Chief of Staff who was ‘swanning’ in the area on Friday, was duly on parade on Saturday am at 9 ocl and 3 of us got into his car at Munchen Gladbach – after a slight hold up for barges at the Maas we reached Tilburg, where we were in the hands of the Dutch, at 12.30.  They gave us a good lunch, after which we changed in the club-house, had our photos taken, heard a short speech from the President of the Club to which the Brigadier replied and then we got started.  The ground was in first-class condition and our side played well though we had most of the luck and much to their and our, surprise, we won 6-1, of which I netted 2.

After the game we went round to our billets and then met at 7 ocl for dinner in one of the local hotels – very good it was too.  15 Scottish Div, who liberated Tilburg on 27 Oct 44 had a march past yesterday and their General and several officers were invited by the Burgomaster to a reception and dance, to which we were also invited.  It was quite a good show though I spent most of the time eating sandwiches and chatting – my billetor was there and we walked back just before midnight.  We didn’t set off until 10 this am and after I had had a real Dutch breakfast, rolls, butter and Dutch cheese!  We stopped for lunch at Krefeld on the way back and arrived here again for tea, after a most successful time.  The Chief of Staff was in excellent form, quite one of the party, and I think he really enjoyed himself.  Now, Maz dear, I must away to have a bath before dinner – I’m so longing to be back home again, roll on December – my love to Pari and Elli, much love to you

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

PTO

P.S.  I found on my return this evening that I’ve been chosen to play in a Trial match at Rhine Army HQ on Wednesday to pick a team for the BAOR v Belgian Army in Brussels 11 Nov – I would like another trip to Brussels!  P.

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 29 OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.  

On front of envelope Written Oct 28th 1945 rec Oct 31st 1945 (12)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 28 October 45

My dearest Maz

Besides a wizard supply of mags, including the best-ever Argosy, I have two most welcome letters to thank you for, written on the 19th and 22nd, from the first of which I was delighted to hear of the safe arrival of the parcel, and that the contents were what you wanted – rousing cheers .  I was most interested to hear all about the sale, very successful, wasn’t it?  I’m so looking forward to a view of the morning room – does one have to pay to go in?!  Also the drawing room minus stack and plus the items you have bought – yes, it was a rotten price for the gramophone, all I can say is that someone has got a real bargain – you just can’t get ‘em nowadays so why it fetched so little I’m blowed if I know.  I’m afraid the weather this last week must have been vile with you from all accounts on the wireless and in the papers, it hasn’t been so good here, either.  There must have been some terrific seas and the beach at the Naze should be littered with axes, arrows and mines(!)

I’ve had a funny sort of week, plenty of work, two excellent games of hockey and two films sums it up in a nutshell – the work side of it has included the taking over of my new job – (not very thrilling) – and organizing all the details of our two hockey matches which involved travelling 640 miles!  The first game was on Wednesday against HQ BAOR and their team included 5 county players – we had our strongest side out, and left here in 3 cars at 10.30 am – they gave us a ‘fair’ lunch (asked whether you thought it was good, you would have said ‘well, yes I think it was!) and we bullied off sharp at 2.30.  The first have was very even with our side getting rather more of the game but just not quite scoring, and at half time we were 0-0.  About 10 minutes after the restart I converted a short corner into a goal with a ‘fizzer’ into the side of the net but they soon equalised after our goalie, who also played very well, made his one and only mistake – after more attacking on our part, they scored the winning goal just before the end after a breakthrough – a draw would have been a fairer result, I think.  They gave us a very good tea and we were back here at 7.45 pm.  Last Sunday night I went to see a film called Czarina, Tallulah Bankhead and my advice, if you are thinking of going to see it, is ‘don’t’.  It was very stupid though quite funny in parts.  On Monday night, at Studio One, I saw a really very good film, one which was at Colchester not so very long ago, called ‘Dead of Night’ all-star cast and very well worth seeing.  The big event of the week was our fixture against Tilburg at Tilburg yesterday.  After a slight delay on Friday evening we left here in 2 cars a 7 pm in a colossal gale and in the pouring rain.  We weren’t able to go very fast and it was just after 9.30 pm when we got to the RHU (Reinforcement Holding Unit) at Krefeld where I had arranged to spend the night – there were 6 officers and 4 sergeants and they gave us a good hot meal and blankets for the night.  The Chief of Staff who was ‘swanning’ in the area on Friday, was duly on parade on Saturday am at 9 ocl and 3 of us got into his car at Munchen Gladbach – after a slight hold up for barges at the Maas we reached Tilburg, where we were in the hands of the Dutch, at 12.30.  They gave us a good lunch, after which we changed in the club-house, had our photos taken, heard a short speech from the President of the Club to which the Brigadier replied and then we got started.  The ground was in first-class condition and our side played well though we had most of the luck and much to their and our, surprise, we won 6-1, of which I netted 2.

After the game we went round to our billets and then met at 7 ocl for dinner in one of the local hotels – very good it was too.  15 Scottish Div, who liberated Tilburg on 27 Oct 44 had a march past yesterday and their General and several officers were invited by the Burgomaster to a reception and dance, to which we were also invited.  It was quite a good show though I spent most of the time eating sandwiches and chatting – my billetor was there and we walked back just before midnight.  We didn’t set off until 10 this am and after I had had a real Dutch breakfast, rolls, butter and Dutch cheese!  We stopped for lunch at Krefeld on the way back and arrived here again for tea, after a most successful time.  The Chief of Staff was in excellent form, quite one of the party, and I think he really enjoyed himself.  Now, Maz dear, I must away to have a bath before dinner – I’m so longing to be back home again, roll on December – my love to Pari and Elli, much love to you

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

PTO

P.S.  I found on my return this evening that I’ve been chosen to play in a Trial match at Rhine Army HQ on Wednesday to pick a team for the BAOR v Belgian Army in Brussels 11 Nov – I would like another trip to Brussels!  P.

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 29 OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.  

On front of envelope Written Oct 28th 1945 rec Oct 31st 1945 (12)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 21 October 1945

My dearest Maz

 My week with 2 Group came to an end yesterday and I was back here just before lunch to find two most welcome letters from you and three lots of papers, also the ECS.  Many thanks, Maz, for the letters and literature.  I was most interested to hear of the various alterations to No 5 and look forward to seeing the ‘new’ drawing and morning rooms – how very grand the advert re the sale was – I loved the boost they gave it by saying ‘the property of a major’!  I hope the sale was a success, also I shall be most interested to hear how much the various odds and ends which Eileen put in will fetch – I’m afraid the prices are going down a bit now.  I hope you have recovered from the visits of the Airies and Mrs Carter and know how thankful you must feel now your duty has been done!  My week has been an amazing one, and during one period of 24 hours I visited France, Belgium, Holland and Germany!  On Monday I went over to 2 Group HQ where I spent the night before flying down in an Anson on Tuesday morning to one of their 3 wings in Brussels.  We were some time taking off owing to engine trouble but eventually got there at 1 ocl.  That afternoon I spent on an exercise and after a night in the Palace Hotel (the Hamoir’s are still in Zoute!) flew down to another Wing at Cambrai on Wednesday afternoon, it is about 75 miles from Brussels and it took us 15 mins! but we were in one of the faster twin engine jobs, that lovely machine, the Mosquito.  After seeing round the station and being introduced to the various bosses I saw a really excellent film at the station cinema, the film of ***** book ‘The Keys of the Kingdom’, excellent I thought.  I flew back to Brussels on Thursday evening, with a formation of 8 other Mosquitoes and again spent the night at the Palace, as the RAF are very short of accommodation, suited me!  Then I flew back to 2 Group on Friday afternoon, again in an Anson, touching down near Breda to pick up a passenger, and arrived at Gutersloh just after tea.  My main reason for getting back yesterday was to play in a league hockey game but on my arrival found it had been postponed! instead I found myself very busy up to 6 ocl – Nigel and I went to see a most amusing film yesterday evening, it didn’t sound a bit good, but we rearly laughed our bloomin’ ‘eads orf, it was called ‘Junior Miss’, I wonder if you’ve seen it?  Yesterday, and it was the same all the week, was perfect here, no cloud, no wind and very warm, today when I was really looking forward to a fine day it has been cold and wet.  I went up to the office for an hour this morning and after doing a few odd jobs after lunch had an hour’s very solid shut-eye!  Have just finished a most interesting tea.  I see from the ECS that Ernest has got to fight ‘Bolshie’ Lampard in the local bi-election I don’t know if one can be liable to forfeit ones deposit but if it is possible I hope the Lampard does!  I shall be most interested to hear the results.  After dinner and to prevent boredom I’m going to see a film called ‘Czarina’ with T. Bankhead in it – I don’t expect it will much good but you never know.  The thought of my next leave is an ever present one now and we shall very soon be in November – I am longing to be back again – I fear any ‘dreams of a pin-stripe Christmas’ permanent pin-stripe have gone completely by the board, the position is more confused than ever now as a result of twit Isaacs latest statement.  Please thank Pari very much for his last letter, he seems to be getting well dug-in at the office again, also the Elli for his, my love to them both.  Am longing to see you again, Maz dear, much love to you,

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 22 OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.  

On front of envelope Written Oct 21st 1945 rec Oct 24th 1945 (11)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 14th October

My dearest Maz

Two most welcome letters from you this week dated 4th and 8th October, for both of which, and the cutting about our new commander, many thanks.  I have only seen the latter in the distance and his reputation when he came here was not very good, a real fire-eater, but I’m told he is not, as yet, living up to it!  No, I lay no claim to the taking of the Zoute snapshots – I got them in a packet of 8 ‘real snapshots’ for 1/-!  They were very well taken, weren’t they?  I hope the Williams will not be disappointed when they get back to Menton, it seems almost too good to be true that their villa should be unscathed, if it really was occupied I should have said it was a million to one against its being untouched – I shall be interested to hear how they find it.

If your weather is anything like it is here I’m afraid last Sunday will have been your last at the Naze this year – it has turned very cold and the autumn seems to be giving way to winter.  I hope you and Eileen enjoyed Henry V, it is very long but I enjoyed it no-end and thought it was well cast and extremely well acted.  My new job I’m pleased to say involves no change of address at all, I merely move into a room two away from my present one and my work is different, for ops, moves and locations I do training and air – tomorrow I go off to 2 Gp RAF for a week and on 11th November I go to our training centre for a fortnights course – it should be quite interesting and the change won’t be unwelcome.  I’m coming back for the afternoon on Thursday to collect mail and to play in rather a needle hockey match.

On Thursday I sent off a wee parcel to you, the contents coming to you with my love and, the hope that they arrive safely and undamaged.  Unfortunately they wouldn’t fit into the famous cake tin which will be sent off in the near future.

As expected the first four days of the week were far from pleasant and I had more to do than one person could reasonably cope with and I had to put in a little overtime though I was able to get out for a couple of hours on Thursday and yesterday afternoons.  On Thursday we had a league hockey match against our Defence Company and after a very keen tussle we beat them 4-2.  As you will have seen in my letter to Pari I got hit over the right eye rather early on but apart from a graze and a nasty bruise I have suffered no ill effects from it, it was a real full blooded hit so it might have been a lot worse.  I popped two into the net so I don’t think it affected my play very much.  Yesterday afternoon I played what may be my last game of tennis this year with a full Colonel a Brigadier and Nigel Raban – we had an excellent form and youth won the day though our opponents played some amazing shots – they gave us a very good tea in their mess afterward, so it was a good afternoon.  I suppose John Leaning’s age group must be fairly low, he is very lucky to get put onto the permanent leave pending release list – I can see that I, the one person who ought to be out fairly soon, shall be last out by a long way and shall be an aged grey haired man before they finally dispense with my services rendered since Jan ’37.  I’m prepared to bet that John will have passed his final before I’m even out of the Army!

On the entertainment side this week I have seen two films and played in one Table Tennis match against one of our branches.  The films were ‘The Fifth Chair’, not awfully good and ‘To have or to have not’ which I rather enjoyed – Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall were in it.  The table tennis match was too one sided to be interesting and we didn’t lose a game, but the tea and buns which followed and the general get-together with another branch were all good fun.  Well, little Maz, I guess this just about exhausts my news and I must away up to the office just to see if there is anything happening.  This afternoon we have a hockey match officers v Sergeants followed by beer in the Sergeants Mess to be paid for by the losers.  I hope you have had a good week, from all accounts Eileen has made further excellent progress in the flat which I long so much to see – We are nearly half way through the month and it is only 10 weeks to Xmas.  I’m so longing for my next leave and to see you all again.  My love to Pari and Elli, much love to you.  I hope you haven’t forgotten vines!

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 15OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.   

On front of envelope Written Oct 14th 1945 rec Oct 17th 1945 (10)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

                                                                                                                   Thursday 11 Oct 45

9.30 pm –

My own most precious darling,

Another letter from you today, you really are a wizard to write so much – I was most interested in your news and to hear of your day at Walton – the old jam store is coming along very nicely, well done!!  Angel, I’m sorry I gave you such scanty particulars about my new job, but there is very little in it – I stay here and am still a G2 in Ops but am responsible not for moves and pure ops as I am now, but for training and all air support matters – I don’t think I shall even have to move my office!  I heard today that my course at Paderborn Training Centre has been postponed until the 12th November but I shall still do my week’s attachment at 2 Group RAF HQ starting on Monday.  It may involve one flight down to a Wing of theirs in Brussels but believe you me I’m much keener on terra firma than wind – yessir!  Please continue writing to me at the usual address as I shall probably come back on Thursday to pick up mail etc.  You will be pleased to hear that I have acquired a canvas squashy bag – not beautiful to look at but very useful and a good size – I spun a long story to our Ordnance wallahs who control them – taking over G2 Air etc and they gave me a chit for the officers’ shop where I bought one for £1.  They are very difficult to get if you are below the rank of full Colonel so I feel rather pleased with myself.  Before I forget it I must refute a slight slur you cast on me the other day on the subject of hats, green, pork-pie.  No darling, I have never possessed a pork-pie of any hue but you are not far out really as I have a very dignified trilby, green, felt which, purely to cause amusement, has been shaped as a pork-pie but never, to my knowledge, has it been worn as such in public!!

I was very much in the wars this afternoon during our local derby match v Defence Company who brought a large gathering to cheer their team to victory and barrack, in fine soccer style, the opposition.  I was the centre of attraction and there were many raucous cries of ‘bring him down, knock him down’ etc when I got the ball and ‘mark that inside left’ when I hadn’t.  The opposition took the ‘bring him down’ exhortations seriously and twice, once when I was about to flash the ball into the net, I was literally bowled over and am now minus skin on both knees, elbows and right cheek of back-side!  Worse was to come, the right back hit a full blooded lofted drive and yours truly standing 5 yards away received it on the forehead.  By the grace of God it was just above my right eye, and though it broke the skin, might have been much worse and I have an enormous ‘egg’ and the prospect of a super black eye!  I was able to go on playing and much to the barrackers chagrin popped two into the net, we won 4-2 and gave as good as we got in the injuries line.  I also have had a bit of a headache so shan’t be late into bed tonight.  To make up for my being away from the office for a couple of hours this afternoon, I had to put in a spot of overtime and a very busy day found me packing up at 7.15 pm.  Darling, I forgot to mention last night that my parcel was dispatched yesterday evening and sent by registered post so it shouldn’t be long in arriving.  The contents come to you with my love, every little tiny bit of it, and are a little present, part of it, for the 11th Nov – I doubt whether I shall get another shopping opportunity for a bit.

Trevor is back tomorrow but I have a busy day ahead of me, but his return will make a lot of difference.  Sweetest dearest beloved, I must to bed where I ask just to dream of the sweetest girl who ever breathed, the girl I love with all my heart.  God bless and keep you, little wizard – ALL my love belongs only to you, the key of my heart is yours for always, I’m just LONGING to see you again, living only for that and for our D day, now drawing so close.  Yours, only yours for ever and always

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 12 OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.  

On front of envelope 11 Oct.

On the back of the envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his wife.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Wednesday 10 Oct

11.00 pm

My own most precious darling,

Oh!  what a day it’s been – I’ve been hopping around like a cat on hot bricks from locations to moves, from train guards to map indents, from guard schedules to a very quick dash down the town to hear the massed pipes from our Lowland Div – it has certainly made the day pass in a flash – but in the middle of it all (I forgot to mention the time taken fixing up the ground, players and kit for our hockey tomorrow), in the midst of it came your most welcome letter written on Saturday evening and read with great interest – I was very pleased to hear of the arrival of the cake!  Not before it was due, was it?  Weren’t you slightly surprised on Sunday morning to find you had an hour more in bed, not less!!  You did very valiant work that morning and it recalled the many Saturdays when I used to reserve my shilling (I could ill afford a shilling but daren’t make it less!) for your box, such a great excuse to talk to you and show my benevolent character!  When I got back to the mess at 7.15 this evening I was persuaded, not difficult, to go and see a film – I felt rather in need of a spot of entertainment and we saw Humphrey Bogwash and the ‘hazel-eyed-sensation’ Lauren Bacall in ‘To have and to have not’ – quite good with the usual Bogwash setting – Middle East, broken French, broken promises, broken vases – the only fly in the ointment with our local cinema is that it is very badly ventilated and the sweat just pours off one.  What a sickening think about the electric fire in the sitting room, surely it must be repairable – Joslin’s might be able to help.  The problem of the piano is a very tricky one – if you’ll excuse my saying it I reckon Bill has been very cunning about it – he has shifted the trouble of selling or taking (and conscience) onto you without losing by it, as it is yours anyway!  I don’t honestly know what to suggest, but by and large reckon you should sell it with the proviso that the price fetched be put straight into your PO account with your gratuities and kept right there for as long as you can – I think he must have changed very suddenly about not liking the idea of selling it, he was very keen on selling it when we were round there in August.  Oh well, my sweet, you are to do exactly as you feel, as you say, it was your Mother’s and I should hate you to have any regrets about selling it – not a very helpful answer but you know what I mean.  Angel girl the hour for bed has struck and I must away and say bon soir et au revoir until tomorrow.  God bless and keep you, my dearest heart, ALL my love is yours and only yours for ALWAYS and you are never out of my thoughts

                        Peter

Thurs 0840 hrs

Darling, a frightful thought as I was coming up here in the bus – Gerald’s birthday on the 15th.  Could you draw some money out of my account and buy him 4 oz of Players de Luxe from me – here is a slip to go on the wee parcel – many thanks, angel in colossal haste do I shall miss the post.

All my love

            Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Peter C Benham, 9 Vint Crescent Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 11 OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.  

On front of envelope 10 Oct.

On the back of the envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR

Letter from Peter C. Benham to his mother.

Major P.C. Benham,

G Branch

HQ 1 Corps District

BAOR

Sunday 7 October 45

My dearest Maz

 Many thanks for your most welcome letter written on Tuesday and for yet another consignment of ‘illustrateds’ – I was, as always, most interested to hear all your news and to hear some of the details of Pari’s release which seems to have gone very smoothly.  I hope Brian’s cold didn’t materialise!  Nothing very thrilling from this end since my letter to you at the beginning of the week – no social or entertainment activities and one game of hockey only which we played yesterday – it was a League match against an Army Troops Coy RE who we beat 7-1, the game was not so one sided as it sounds and there was some good clean hitting and open play – my eye was rather well in and I put 4 into the net.  Quite a few of my friends here said goodbye during the week, leaving to be demobbed with groups 17, 18 and 19.  Amongst them Tim Roberts who place as GSO 1 Ops will not be filled – we have also lost two of our original mess members, they will all be civilians by the time this reaches you.

The first 5 days of this coming week are likely to be very busy ones for me – both my G3s are away, one left yesterday on 14 days compassionate leave and the other is on a short leave over here.  When Harrison comes back from his short leave I am due to change my job and will become G2 Training and Air – the latter for which I will have to receive some special training, will mean my being attached to a RAF Group out here for one week and then on 29th October I am due to go on a two week’s course in Air Support at the Rhine Army School some 50 miles East of here.  It seems rather absurd to get down to something new after 6 years but it may have its interesting side and anyway won’t be for very long.

I am very undecided what to do today, later on this morning I shall walk up to the office and probably after tea shall go along and watch the final of another tournament they are having today – starting at 11 ocl it takes too long and I decided against playing in it.  Between lunch and tea I shouldn’t be a bit surprised if I don’t get a spot of shut-eye!

Table tennis had got a big hold in G branch now and great keenness is shown by all.  In my absence the ladder was started and they drew for preliminary positions – I was no 11 but by dint of a few games played am now no 1 and have constant challenges to ward off!  We have a match on Tuesday evening against another branch which should be great fun, we have some quite useful players and our Chief Clerk is a member of the Corps HQ team.  I am now half way to the next leave period and am looking forward to it –yessir.  I must now slip along and get myself organised for the office – Much love to you and to Pari and Brian here’s to the next 2 months going past very quickly.

            Yours as ever

very affectionately

                        Peter

In envelope headed ‘O A S’ addressed to Mrs Gerald C Benham, 5 Oxford Road Colchester Essex.

Postmarked FIELD POST OFFICE 734 dated 8 OC 45.  Signed P.C. Benham.    

On front of envelope Written Oct 7th 1945 rec Oct 10th 1945 (9)

On back of envelope Major P.C. Benham, G Branch, HQ 1 Corps District, BAOR.